Archive for January, 2009

GOD AS A POTTER

January 15th, 2009

This story is told by my Friend who went to England to celebrate their first wedding anniversary and shopped at a beautiful antique store.( they told me this, so that I will be able to understand what GOD wanted me to become )  .They both liked antiques and pottery, and especially teacups, and so spotting an exceptional cup, they asked, “May we see that? We’ve never seen a cup quite so beautiful.”

As the lady handed it to them, suddenly the teacup spoke…

“You don’t understand, I have not always been a teacup. There was a time when I was just a lump of red clay. My master took me and rolled me pounded and patted me over and over and I yelled out, ‘Don’t do that. I don’t like it! Leave me alone!’ “

But the master only smiled and gently said, “Not yet!”

“Then,  I was placed on a spinning wheel and suddenly I was spun around and around and around. Stop it! I’m getting so dizzy! I’m going to be sick,” I screamed.

But the master only nodded and said quietly," Not yet.”

“He spun me and poked and prodded and bent me out of shape to suit him and then…..he put me in the oven. I never felt such heat. I yelled and knocked and pounded at the door. Help! Get me out of here!”

Again he said, “Not yet.”

“When I thought I couldn’t bear it another minute, the door opened. He carefully took me out and put me on the shelf, and I began to cool. Oh, that felt so good! Ah, this is much better,” I thought. “But after I cooled he picked me up and he brushed and painted me all over. The fumes were horrible. Oh, please, Stop it! Stop it!” I cried.

He only shook his head and said,”Not yet.”

“Then suddenly he put me back into the oven. Only it was not like the first time. This time it was twice as hot and I just knew I would suffocate. I begged… I pleaded… I screamed…I cried… I was convinced I would ever make it.

I was ready to give up and just then the door opened and he took me out and again placed me on the shelf, where I cooled and waited and waited, wondering: What’s he going to do to me next? An hour later he handed me a mirror and said…”

“Look at yourself.”

“And I did..”.

“I said, That’s not me, that couldn’t be me. It’s beautiful. I’m beautiful!”

“Quietly he spoke, ‘I want you to remember,’ then he said…”

“I know it hurt to be rolled and pounded and patted, but had I just left you alone, you’d have dried up. I know it made you dizzy to spin around on the wheel, but if I had stopped you would have crumbled.

I know it hurt and it was hot and disagreeable in the oven, but if I hadn’t put you there you would have cracked. I know the fumes were bad when I brushed and painted you all over, but if I hadn’t done that you never would have hardened. You would not have had any color in your life.

And if I hadn’t put you back in that second oven, you wouldn’t have survived for long because the hardness would not have held. Now you are a finished product. Now you are what I had in mind when I first began with you.”

The moral of this story is this: The Lord knows what He’s doing for each of us; He is the potter, and we are His clay. He will mould us and make us, and expose us to just enough pressures of just the right kinds that we may be made into a flawless piece of work to fulfill His good, pleasing and perfect will.

So when life seems hard, and you are being pounded and patted and pushed almost beyond endurance; when your world seems to be spinning out of control; when you feel like you are in a fiery furnace of trials; when life seems too hard to bear, try this……

Brew a cup of your favorite tea in your prettiest tea cup, sit down and have a little talk with the Potter.

“I will love the light for it shows me the way, yet, I will endure the darkness for it shows me the stars.”

 

 

TRAGEDY OF DEATH

January 14th, 2009

This one for MUKESH……………Missing U

I loved you so.
So why did you have to go?

Why did God take you away from me that day?
I never got to tell you all the things I had to say.

Never did I tell you the way you made me feel when you were around.
And now I will never get to tell you now that you are in the ground.

I wanted to tell you that I loved you so much,
And that I loved it when I felt your touch.
Never again will I be able to hold your hand,
As we walk along the sand,

Or watch the waves crash up on the shore.
That is something I really adored.

But you are gone.
Now I will have to wake up alone when a new day has dawned.

My heart is broken and I don’t know if it will ever be able to mend,
Until the day when I see you again.

You made me see life in a different view,
And because of that I will never forget you.
I will live my life for you
And will do the things you never got a chance to do.

You changed my life in the very best way.
You made me the person that I am today.
I will always remember you each and every day.

My only regret is that I never told you how much I loved you,
But hopefully you can hear me now when I say I truly did love

share sorrow………..it may solve the problem

January 14th, 2009

One day a girl had a pile of troubles, fears and woes stacked so high that she lost track of which was which and what was what. One day she fell down, down so far that everything was shattered; her hopes, dreams and happiness.

Someone asked what was wrong and it was someone who this girl did not want to say anything to or dump anything on. She didn’t tell anyone anything and dragged everything with her through her life and still does.

“What’s wrong” someone asked. “Nothing,” she said. Others also followed that pattern, all but one. This woman quietly slipped her out of the crowd and took her to a quiet place and simply said, “Can I help?”

“Not unless you can change the past,” the girl replied. The woman said, “I can’t change the past and I can’t change anything, but God can change the world and he cares.”

That was enough to set the girl into an uncontrollable shock wave of pain and her past flooded her. Her hurts and fears fell on her like a ton of bricks and she cried herself into comfort. The woman hugged her and instead of saying ‘everything will be alright’, she just held the girl and cried with her.

Sometimes you don’t need to ask questions. Sometimes things just fall down around people and they don’t know where to turn or where to go or what to do.

Be like the woman in this story and cry with, instead of telling people to ‘get over it’. Things wound and scar, but things can wound and heal and never be seen or thought of again. Sometimes you cannot understand certain things. Certain things don’t need to be understood.


HAVE FAITH

January 12th, 2009

Hi Friends,

Sharing an interesting story -

A business executive was deep in debt and could see no way out.

Creditors were closing in on him. Suppliers were demanding payment. He sat on the park bench, head in hands, wondering if anything could save his company from bankruptcy.

Suddenly an old man appeared before him.

“I can see that something is troubling you,” he said.

After listening to the executive’s woes, the old man said, “I believe I can help you.”

He asked the man his name, wrote out a check, and pushed it into his hand saying, “Take this money. Meet me here exactly one year from today, and you can pay me back at that time.”

Then he turned and disappeared as quickly as he had come.

The business executive saw in his hand a check for $500,000, signed by John D. Rockefeller, then one of the richest men in the world!

“I can erase my money worries in an instant!” he realized. But instead, the executive decided to put the uncashed check in his safe. Just knowing it was there might give him the strength to work out a way to save his business, he thought.

With renewed optimism, he negotiated better deals and extended terms of payment. He closed several big sales. Within a few months, he was out of debt and making money once again.

Exactly one year later, he returned to the park with the uncashed check. At the agreed-upon time, the old man appeared. But just as the executive was about to hand back the check and share his success story, a nurse came running up and grabbed the old man.

“I’m so glad I caught him!” she cried. “I hope he hasn’t been bothering you. He’s always escaping from the rest home and telling people he’s John D. Rockefeller.”

And she led the old man away by the arm.

The astonished executive just stood there, stunned. All year long he’d been wheeling and dealing, buying and selling, convinced he had half a million dollars behind him.

Suddenly, he realized that it wasn’t the money, real or imagined, that had turned his life around. It was his newfound self-confidence that gave him the power to achieve anything he went after.

__________________

 

SUDHA MURTHY PART-2

January 9th, 2009

Part 2


This article is written by Sudha the wife of the Chairman (Murthy) of the largest IT Company INFOSYSin India.

(Infosys is a multi billion company now) Murthy & his wife are famous for their simplicity!! Article is simply humbling & too inspiring!!

AUTHOR AND WIFE OF INFOSYS CHAIRMAN NARAYANA MURTHY, TELLS THE STORY OF HOW INFOSYS WAS BORN AND HOW HER LIFE HAS CHANGED…YET REMAINED VERY MUCH THE SAME
I was in Pune when I met Narayana Murthy through my friend Prasanna, who is now the Wipro chief, who was also training in Telco. Murthy was shy, bespectacled and an introvert. When he invited us for dinner, I was a bit taken aback… I refused since I was the only girl in the group. But Murthy was relentless and we all decided to meet or dinner the next day at
7.30PM at Green Fields Hotel on Pune’s Main Road
.
The next day, I went there at seven since I had to go to the tailor near the hotel. And what do I see? Mr Murthy waiting in front of the hotel and it was only seven.

Till today, Murthy maintains that I had mentioned (consciously!) that I would be going to the tailor at seven, so that I could meet him… And I
maintain that I did not say any such thing, consciously or subconsciously, because I did not think of Murthy as anything other than a friend at that stage. We have agreed to disagree on this matter. Soon, we became friends. Our conversations were filled with Murthy’s experiences abroad and the books that he had read. My friends insisted that Murthy was trying to impress me because he was interested in me. I kept denying it till one day,after dinner, Murthy said, I want to tell you something. I knew this was it. It was coming. He said, I am 5′4″ tall. I come from a lower middleclass family. I can never become rich. You are beautiful, bright, intelligent and you can get anyone you want. But will you marry me?

I asked him to give me some time…

When I went to Hubli, I told my parents about Murthy and his proposal. My mother was positive since Murthy was also from Karnataka, seemed
intelligent and came from a good family. But my father asked: What’s his job, his salary, his qualifications, etc? Murthy was working as a research assistant and earning less than me. He was willing to go Dutch with me on our outings.

My parents agreed to meet him in Pune on a particular day at
10 am sharp. Murthy did not turn up. How can I trust a man to take care of my daughter if he cannot keep an appointment, asked my father. At 12 noon, Murthy turned up in a bright red shirt! He had gone on work to Bombay
, got stuck in a traffic jam in the ghats, so he hired a taxi (though it was very expensive for him) to meet his would-be father-in-law.
Father was unimpressed. He asked Murthy what he wanted to become in life. Murthy said he wanted to become a politician in the Communist Party and wanted to open an orphanage. My father gave his verdict. No. I don’t want my daughter to marry somebody who wants to become a communist and then open an orphanage when he himself doesn’t have money to support his family…

By this time, I realised I had developed a liking towards Murthy, which could only be termed as love. I wanted to marry him because he was an
honest man. I promised my father that I would not marry Murthy without his blessings, though at the same time, I would not marry anybody else. My father said he would agree if Murthy promised to take up a steady job. But Murthy refused, saying he would not do things in life because somebody wanted him to. I was caught between the two most important people in my life. The stalemate continued for three years, during which our courtship took us to every restaurant and cinema hall in Pune. Murthy was always broke. (Ironically, today, he manages Infosys Technologies Ltd, one of the world’s most reputed companies.) He always owed me money. We used to go for dinner and he would say, I don t have money with me, you pay my share, will return it to you later. For three years, I maintained a book of Murthy’s debts to me. No, he never returned the money and I finally tore it up after our wedding. The amount was a little over Rs 4,000.
During this period, Murthy quit his job as a research assistant and started his own software business… Towards the late’70s computers were entering
India in a big way. At the fag end of 1977, Murthy decided to take up a job as General Manager at Patni Computers in Bombay.But before he joined the company, he wanted to marry me since he was to go on training to the US
afterjoining.

My father gave in as he was happy Murthy had a decent job, now. We were married in Murthy’s house in
Bangalore on February 10, 1978, with only our two families present. I got my first silk sari. The wedding expenses came to only Rs 800, with Murthy and I pooling in Rs 400 each. I went to the US with Murthy after marriage. He enouraged me to see America on my own, because I loved travelling. I toured America
for three months with a backpack.

In 1981, Murthy wanted to start Infosys. Initially, I was very apprehensive about him getting into business. We were living a comfortable life in
Bombay
with a regular paycheck and I didn’t want to rock the boat. But Murthy was passionate about creating good quality software. I decided to support him. Typically for Murthy, he had a dream and no money. So I gave him Rs 10,000 which I had saved for a rainy day without his knowledge and told him, this is all I have. Take it. I will take care of the financial needs of our house. You go and chase your dreams. But you have only three years!

Murthy and his six colleagues started Infosys in 1981.In 1982, I left Telco and moved to Pune with Murthy. We bought a small house on loan, which also became the Infosys office. I was a clerk-cum-cook- cum-programmer. I also took up a job as Senior Systems Analyst with the Walchand group of Industries to support the house.

In’83, Infosys got their first client, MICO, in
Bangalore
. Murthy moved to Bangalore and stayed with his mother, while I went to Hubli to deliver
my second child, Rohan. Ten days after my son was born, Murthy left for the
US on project work. I saw him only after a year - my son had infantile eczema. It was only after Rohan received all his vaccinations that I came to Bangalore
where we rented a small house in Jayanagar and rented another house as Infosys headquarters. Nandan Nilekani and his wife Rohini stayed with us. While Rohini babysat my son, I wrote programmes for Infosys. There was no car, no phone, just two kids and a bunch of us working hard, juggling our lives and having fun while Infosys was taking shape. The wives of other partners too, gave their unstinting support. We all knew that our men were trying to build something good.

Murthy made it very clear that it would either be me or him working at Infosys. Never the two of us together. He did not want a husband and wife team at Infosys. I was shocked since I had the relevant experience and technical qualifications. He said, Sudha if you want to work with Infosys, I will withdraw, happily I was pained to know that I would not be involved in the company my husband was building and that I would have to give up a job that I was qualified to do and loved doing… Then, I realised that to make Infosys a success, one had to give 100 per cent. One had to be focused on it alone, with no other distractions. If the two of us had to give 100per cent to Infosys, what would happen to our home and our children? I opted to be a homemaker; after all, Infosys was Murthy’s dream. It was a big sacrifice, but it was one that had to be made. Even today, Murthy says,Sudha, I stepped on your career to make mine. You are responsible for my success. I might have given up my career for my husband’s sake, but that does not make me a doormat… Isn’t freedom about living your life the way you want it? What is right for one person might be wrong for another. It is up to the individual to make a choice that is effective in her life. I believe that when a woman gives up her right to choose for herself, that is when she crosses over from being an individual to a doormat.

Murthy’s dreams encompassed not only himself, but a generation of people. It was about creating something worthy, exemplary and honourable. It was about creation and distribution of wealth. His dreams were grander than my career plans, in all aspects. So, when I had to choose between Murthy’s career and mine, I opted for what I thought was the right choice. We had a home and two little children. Somebody had to take care of it all. Somebody had to stay behind to create a home base that would be fertile for healthy growth, happiness, and more dreams to dream. I became that somebody willingly I can confidently say that if I had had a dream like Infosys,Murthy would have given me his unstinted support. The roles would have been reversed. We are not bound by the archaic rules of marriage. He does not intrude into my time, especially when I am writing my novels. He does not interfere in my work at the Infosys Foundation and I don’t interfere with the running of Infosys.

I teach computer science to MBA and MCA students at
Christ College
for a few hours every week and I earn around Rs 50,000 a year. I value this financial independence greatly, though there is no need for me to pursue a career. Murthy respects that. I travel the world without him, because he hates travelling. We trust each other implicitly. We have another understanding too. While he earns the money, I spend it mostly through charity. The Infosys Foundation was born in 1997 with the sole objective of uplifting the less-privileged sections of society. In the past three years,we have built hospitals, orphanages, rehabilitation centres, school buildings, science centres and more than 3,500 libraries. Our work is mainly in the rural areas amongst women and children. I am one of the trustees of the Foundation, and our activities span six states. I travel to around 800 villages constantly. Every year, we donate around Rs 5-6 crores. We run Infosys Foundation the way Murthy runs Infosys - in a professional and scientific way. Philanthropy is a profession and an art. It can be used or misused. Every year, we receive more than 10,000 applications for donations. Every day, I receive more than 120 calls. Amongst these, there are those who genuinely need help and there are hoodwinkers too. Over the years, I have learnt to differentiate the wheat from the chaff, though I still give all the cases a patient hearing. Sometimes, I feel I have lost the ability to trust people. I have become shrewder to avoid being conned. I think that is the price that I have to pay for the position I am in now.

The greatest difficulty in having money is to teach your children its value… Bringing up children in a moneyed atmosphere is a difficult task.
Even today, I think twice if I have to spend Rs 10 on an auto when I can walk to my house. I cannot expect my children to do the same. They have seen money from the time they were born. But we can lead by example. When they see Murthy wash his own plate after eating and clean the two toilets in the house every day, they realise that no work is demeaning, irrespective of how rich you are. This doesn’t mean we expect our children to live an austere life. My children buy what they want, go where they want, but they have to follow certain rules. They have to show me bills for whatever they buy: My daughter can buy five new outfits, but she has to give away five old ones. My son can go out with his friends for lunch or dinner, but we discourage him from going to a five star hotel.Or we accompany him. My children haven’t given me any heartbreak. My daughter is studying abroad, my son in
Bangalore
. They don t use their father’s name in vain. They only say that his name is Murthy and that he works for Infosys.

They don’t want to be recognised and appreciated because of their father or me, but for themselves.

I don’t feel guilty about having money, for we have worked hard for it. But I don’t feel comfortable flaunting it. It is a conscious decision on
our part to live a simple, so-called middle class life. We live in the same two-bedroom, sparsely furnished house we lived in before Infosys became a success. Our only extravagance is buying books and CDs. My house has no lockers for I have no jewels. I wear a pair of stone earrings which I bought in
Bombay
for Rs 100. I don, t even wear my `mangalsutra` unless I need to attend some family functions or when I am with my mother-in-law.

Five years ago, I went to Kashi, where tradition demands that you give something up. I gave up shopping. Since then, I haven’t bought myself a
sari or gone shopping. I don’t carry a purse and neither does Murthy, most of the time. I borrow money from my secretary or my driver if I need cash.

They know my habit, so they always carry extra cash with them. But I settle the accounts every evening. Murthy and I are very comfortable with our lifestyle and we don’t see the need to change it now that we have money.

Murthy and I are two opposites that complement each other. Murthy is sensitive and romantic in his own way. He always gifts me books addressed ‘From Me to You. Or’To the person I most admire, etc. We both love books. I am an extrovert and he is an introvert. I love watching movies and listening to classical music. Murthy loves listening to English classical music. I go out for movies with my students and secretary every other week.

I am still young at heart. I really enjoyed watching ‘Kaho Na Pyaar Hai’; I’m a Hrithik Roshan fan. It has been more than 20 years since Murthy
and I went for a movie. My daughter once gave us a surprise by booking tickets for ‘Titanic’. Since I had a prior engagement that day, Murthy went for the movie with his secretary Pandu. I love travelling, whereas Murthy loves spending time at home. Friends come and go with the share prices. Even in my dreams, I did not expect Infosys to grow the way it has. After Infosys went public in 1993, we became what people would call rich, moneyed people. Suddenly, you see and hear about so much money: people talk about you. It was all new to me. Have I lost my identity as a woman, in Murthy’s shadow? No, I might be Mrs Narayana Murthy. I might be Akshata and Rohan’s mother. I might be the
trustee of Infosys Foundation. But I am still Sudha. Like all women, I play different roles. That doesn’t mean we don’t have our own identity.
Women have that extra quality of adaptability and learn to fit into different shoes. But we are our own selves still. And we have to exact our
freedom by making the right choices in our lives, dictated by us and not by the world

REMEMBERING MUKESH MINOTRA…….

January 8th, 2009

If GOD answers our prayers, he is increasing our Faith……

If he delays in answering our prayers, he is increasing our patience;

If he does not answer, he has something better for us………

 

Today one year have been passed when I lost Mukesh in cruel hands of destiny…….

REHNE KO IS JAHAN ME SADA KOI AATA NAHIN

PAR JAISE TUM GAYE, WAISE BHI KOI JATA NAHIN……..

One year have been passed away

Seems just like yesterday….

Time may hide my sadness

Smile may hide my tears…

YOUR memories I  treasure still,

YOUR place in my heart no one can fill.

My heart is filled with sadness and silent tears still flow..

What it means to lose you no one will ever know……..

 

At that time when I was bed-ridden for two months, I started writing blogs, it really helps me to release my stress & I have got so many friends to share their thoughts with me. THANX TO ALL OF YOU FOR ALWAYS BEING THERE WITH ME, FOR SHARING YOUR WISDOM WITH ME.

 

Regards

Manju.

 

A VERY INSPIRING ARTICLE FROM SUDHA MURTHY OF INFOSYS

January 7th, 2009


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PART 1


 


 


It was probably the April of 1974. Bangalore was getting warm and gulmohars were blooming at the IISc campus. I was the only girl in my postgraduate department and was staying at the ladies’ hostel. Other girls were pursuing research in different departments of Science. I was looking forward to going abroad to complete a doctorate in computer science. I had been offered scholarships from Universities in the US. I had not thought of taking up a job in India.



One day, while on the way to my hostel from our lecture-hall complex, I saw an advertisement on the notice board. It was a standard job-requirement notice from the famous automobile company Telco (now Tata Motors). It stated that the company required young, bright engineers, hardworking and with an excellent academic background, etc.At the bottom was a small line: “Lady Candidates need not apply.”
I read it and was very upset. For the first time in my life I was up against gender discrimination. Though I was not keen on taking up the job, I saw it as a challenge. I had done extremely well in academics, better than most of my male peers. Little did I know then that in real life academic excellence is not enough to be successful? After reading the notice I went fuming to my room.


 


I decided to inform the topmost person in Telco’s management about the injustice the company was perpetrating. I got a postcard and started to write, but there was a problem: I did not know who headed Telco.


 


I thought it must be one of the Tatas. I knew JRD Tata was the head of the Tata Group; I had seen his pictures in newspapers (actually, Sumant Moolgaokar was the company’s chairman then). I took the card, addressed it to JRD and started writing. To this day I remember clearly what I wrote. “The great Tatas have always been pioneers.


 


They are the people who started the basic infrastructure industries in India, such as iron and steel, chemicals, textiles and locomotives. They have cared for higher education in India since 1900 and they were responsible for the establishment of the Indian Institute of Science. Fortunately, I study there. But I am surprised how a company such as Telco is discriminating on the basis of gender.”


 


I posted the letter and forgot about it. Less than 10 days later, I received a telegram stating that I had to appear for an interview at Telco’s Pune facility at the company’s expense. I was taken aback by the telegram.


 


My hostel mate told me I should use the opportunity to go to Pune free of cost and buy them the famous Pune saris for cheap! I collected Rs.30 each from everyone who wanted a sari. When I look back, I feel like laughing at the reasons for my going, but back then they seemed good enough to make the trip.



It was my first visit to Pune and I immediately fell in love with the city. To this day it remains dear to me. I feel as much at home in Pune as I do in Hubli, my hometown. The place changed my life in so many ways. As directed, I went to Telco’s Pimpri office for the interview. There were six people on the panel and I realised then that this was serious business.”This is the girl who wrote to JRD,” I heard somebody whisper as soon as I entered the room. By then I knew for sure that I would not get the job. The realisation abolished all fear from my mind, so I was rather cool while the interview was being conducted.



Even before the interview started, I reckoned the panel was biased, so I told them, rather impolitely, “I hope this is only a technical interview.”


 


They were taken aback by my rudeness, and even today I am ashamed about my attitude. The panel asked me technical questions and I answered all of them.


 


Then an elderly gentleman with an affectionate voice told me, “Do you know why we said lady Candidates need not apply? The reason is that we have never employed any ladies on the shop floor. This is not a co-ed college; this is a factory.


 


When it comes to academics, you are a first ranker throughout. We appreciate that, but people like you should work in research laboratories.” I was a young girl from small-town Hubli. My world had been a limited place. I did not know the ways of large corporate houses and their difficulties, so I answered, “But you must start somewhere, otherwise no woman will ever be able to work in your factories.”


 


Finally, after a long interview, I was told I had been successful. So this was what the future had in store for me. Never had I thought I would take up a job in Pune. I met a shy young man from Karnataka there, we became good friends and we got married.


 


It was only after joining Telco that I realized who JRD was: the uncrowned king of Indian industry. Now I was scared, but I did not get to meet him till I was transferred to Bombay. One day I had to show some reports to Mr. Moolgaokar, our chairman, who we all knew as SM.I was in his office on the first floor of Bombay House (the Tata Headquarters) when, suddenly JRD walked in that was the first time I saw “appro JRD”. Appro means “our” in Gujarati.


 


This was the affectionate term by which people at Bombay House called him. I was feeling very nervous, remembering my postcard episode. SM introduced me nicely, “Jeh (that’s what his close associates called him), this young woman is an engineer and that too a postgraduate.


 


She is the first woman to work on the Telco shop floor.” JRD looked at me.
I was praying he would not ask me any questions about my interview (or the postcard that preceded it).



Thankfully, he didn’t. Instead, he remarked. “It is nice that girls are getting into engineering in our country. By the way, what is your name?”
“When I joined Telco I was Sudha Kulkarni, Sir,” I replied. “Now I am Sudha Murthy.” He smiled and kindly smile and started a discussion with SM. As for me, I almost ran out of the room. After that I used to see JRD on and off. He was the Tata Group chairman and I was merely an engineer. There was nothing that we had in common. I was in awe of him. One day I was waiting for Murthy, my husband, to pick me up after office hours. To my surprise I saw JRD standing next to me. I did not know how to react. Yet again I started worrying about that postcard. Looking back, I realise JRD had forgotten about it.


 


It must have been a small incident for him, but not so for me. “Young lady, why are you here?” he asked. “Office time is over.” I said, “Sir, I’m waiting for my husband to come and pick me up.” JRD said, “It is getting dark and there’s no one in the


 


Corridor. I’ll wait with you till your husband comes.” I was quite used to waiting for Murthy, but having JRD waiting alongside made me extremely uncomfortable. I was nervous. Out of the corner of my eye I looked at him. He wore a simple white pant and shirt. He was old, yet his face was glowing. There wasn’t any air of superiority about him. I was thinking, “Look at this person. He is a chairman, a well-respected man in our country and he is waiting for the sake of an ordinary employee.” Then I saw Murthy and I rushed out. JRD called and said, “Young lady, tell your husband never to make his wife wait again.” In 1982 I had to resign from my job at Telco. I was reluctant to go, but I really did not have a choice. I was coming down the steps of Bombay House after wrapping up my final settlement when I saw JRD coming up. He was absorbed in thought. I wanted to say goodbye to him, so I stopped. He saw me and paused.Gently, he said, “So what are you doing, Mrs. Kulkarni?” (That was the way he always addressed me.) “Sir, I am leaving Telco.”


 


“Where are you going?” he asked. “Pune, Sir. My husband is starting a company called Infosys and I’m shifting to Pune.”


 


“Oh! And what will you do when you are successful.” “Sir, I don’t know whether we will be successful.” “Never start with diffidence,” he advised me. “Always start with confidence. When you are successful you must give back to society. Society gives us so much; we must reciprocate. I wish you all the best.” Then JRD continued walking up the stairs. I stood there for what seemed like a millennium. That was the last time I saw him alive. Many years later I met Ratan Tata in the same Bombay House, occupying the chair JRD once did. I told him of my many sweet memories of working with Telco. Later, he wrote to me, “It was nice hearing about Jeh from you. The sad part is that he’s not alive to see you today.”


 


 


I consider JRD a great man because, despite being an extremely busy person, he valued one postcard written by a young girl seeking justice. He must have received thousands of letters everyday. He could have thrown mine away, but he didn’t do that. He respected the intentions of that unknown girl, who had neither influence nor money, and gave her an opportunity in his company. He did not merely give her a job; he changed her life and mindset forever. Close to 50 per cent of the students in today’s engineering colleges are girls. And there are women on the shop floor in many industry segments. I see these changes and I think of JRD.


 


If at all time stops and asks me what I want from life, I would say I wish JRD were alive today to see how the company we started has grown. He would have enjoyed it wholeheartedly.



My love and respect for the House of Tata remains undiminished by the passage of time. I always looked up to JRD. I saw him as a role model for his simplicity, his generosity, his kindness and the care he took of his employees. Those blue eyes always reminded me of the sky; they had the same vastness and magnificence.


 


 


*(Sudha Murthy is a widely published writer and chairperson of the Infosys Foundation involved in a number of social development initiatives. Infosys chairman Narayan Murthy is her husband.)


 


*Article sourced from: Lasting Legacies (Tata Review- Special Commemorative Issue 2004), brought out by the house of Tatas to commemorate the 100th birth anniversary of JRD Tata on July 29, 2004


 


 

THOUGHTS FOR U !!!!!!!!!!!

January 6th, 2009

 

Learn from Zero
Staying at the Back
Giving own power & Support
To those who are in front &
Still being Egoless

 

 

 

When God leads you to the cliff, Trust Him fully, only one thing will happen Either He’ll catch You when You fall or He’ll teach you how to fly………..

 

 

 

The tragedy of life is not that it ends so soon,
but that we wait so long to begin it .

 

 

 

Don't compare your life with anyone in this world,
If you are comparing, you are insulting yourself"

 

 

 

Two Great Days in Human Life :

The day we were born

&

The day we prove why we are born

 

 

 

You may walk slowly but never walk backwards! And when ever you walk backwards, be sure that it is for a long Jump.

 

There are two ways of being United -
By being frozen together or being melted together.
It is better to be melted in love than to be frozen in indifference!!!!!!

 

Some Thought provoking Thoughts

January 3rd, 2009

LIFE QUOTES ~


IF U WANT TO MAKE GOD LAUGH TELL HIM UR FUTURE PLANS

Life is like a library owned by the author. In it are a few books
which he wrote himself, but most of them were written for him. -
Harry Emerson Fosdick

Don't stop yourself from enjoying the NOW bcoz of an imagined tomorrow or a remembered yesterday.

Never underestimate the power of your actions. With one small gesture you can change a person's life for better or for worse. GOD puts us all in each other's lives to impact on one another in some way.

When we share ourselves with others, life begins to find its meaning, the time we touch the hearts of others is the moment we truly start living.

Life is the art of drawing sufficient conclusions from insufficient premises. - Samuel Butler



The best condition in life is to be not so rich as to be envied nor so poor as to be damned. - Josh Billings



Life can only be understood backwards, but it must be lived
forwards. - Soren Kierkegaard


Living well and beautifully and justly are all one thing. - Socrates


We are here to add what we can to, not what we can get from, life. -
Sir William Osler



The unexamined life is not worth living. ' Socrates



We should employ our passions in the service of life, not spend life in the service of our passions. - Richard Steele



If you really want something in this life, you have to work for it -Now quiet, they’re about to announce the lottery numbers! ' Homer Simpson



The boundaries which divide life from death are at best shadowy and vague. Who shall say where one ends, and the other begins? ' Edgar Alan Poe

a lighter note on recession

January 2nd, 2009

Finally…..a lighter note on recession…..hope you all would like it

An engineering student tells his sweeper brother: "I have a degree, I have the skills, I have a social standing…. what do you have? The sweeper replies: "I have the job."


A man: I have four sons. One is a share broker, other is a Jet Airways employee, third is an investment banker. Fourth is a panwallah and he runs the household.


What's the difference between Investment Bankers and
London Pigeons? ? The Pigeons are still capable of making deposits on new BMWs.

 



A director decided to award a prize of Rs 10,000 to one who gives the best idea to save company money during the recession. It was won by a executive who suggested reducing the prize money to Rs 1,000.

 




Bush was asked about the economic crunch. He said it was his favorite candy bar.

And the best of all…..

What worries me most about the crunch is that if one of my cheques is returned stamped "insufficient funds", I won't know whether that refers to mine or the bank's.

 

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