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ONLY FOR YOU…………..

June 3rd, 2009



















You had a talent for bringing special meaning to life
It was such a pleasure to be your wife.
You helped me to grow and to realize
The fullness and the beauty in our lives.


Every day I counted my blessings.
Then God called, and you went away
Out of this world to a brighter day.
Suddenly my life of gladness
Turned to utter sadness.


My grief wears me down, I shed so many tears,
As I recall your love and devotion through the years.
For your sake and in memory of your name,
I pray for strength to do things the same.


To reach out, to fill the hours with useful ways,
To comfort, to cheer and have no more empty days.
I try to console myself — it was God’s greater plan,
So I must accept it, if I can.


You moved away to His splendid home above,
If there is life after death,
I know you will be waiting there for me,
With love.


Though Heaven and Earth divide us, and the distance is so great,
I count my blessings for the years you were my mate.
I will live my life remembering, while you wait, slumbering.
My beloved, may you rest in peace.


A CUTE LOVE STORY

March 18th, 2009

GIRL-AM I PRETTY?

BOY-NO.

GIRL-DO U WANTS TO LIVE WITH ME?

BOY-NO.

GIRL-WILL U CRY IF I LEAVE U?

BOY-NO.


The girl got hurt and started to cry. The boy pulled her close 2 him and said :



U R NOT PRETTY BUT BEAUTIFUL,

I DONT WANT TO LIVE WID U…BUT LIVE FOR U,

IF U LEAVE ME…..I WONT CRY BUT DIE

TRUE LOVE …………HARD TO FIND

December 10th, 2008

An amazing Love Story

He met her on a party. She was so outstanding, many guys chasing after
her, while he so normal, nobody paid attention to him. At the end of the
party, he invited her to have coffee with him, she was surprised, but due
to being polite, she promised. They sat in a nice coffee shop, he was too
nervous to say anything, she felt uncomfortable, she thought, please, let
me go home…. suddenly he asked the waiter. “would you please give me
some salt? I’d like to put it in my coffee.”


Everybody stared at him, so strange! His face turned red, but still, he put the salt in his coffee and drank it. She asked him curiously; why you have this hobby? He replied: “when I was a little boy, I was living near the sea, I like playing in the sea, I could feel the taste of the sea, just like the taste of the salty coffee. Now every time I have the salty coffee, I always think of my childhood, think of my hometown, I miss my hometown so much, I miss my parents who are still living there”. While saying that tears filled his eyes. She was deeply touched.

That’s his true feeling, from the bottom of his heart. A man who can tell
out his homesickness, he must be a man who loves home, cares about home, has responsibility of home. Then she also started to speak, spoke about her faraway hometown, her childhood, her family. That was a really nice talk, also a beautiful beginning of their story.

They continued to date. She found that actually he was a man who meets
all her demands; he had tolerance, was kind hearted, warm, careful. He was such a good person but she almost missed him! Thanks to his salty
coffee!

Then the story was just like every beautiful love story , the princess
married to the prince, then they were living the happy life… And, every
time she made coffee for him, she put some salt in the coffee e, as she
knew that’s the way he liked it.

After 40 years, he passed away, left her a letter which said: “My dearest,
please forgive me, forgive my whole life lie. This was the only lie I said
to you—the salty coffee. Remember the first time we dated? I was so
nervous at that time, actually I wanted some sugar, but I said salt It
was hard for me to change so I just went ahead.I never thought that could be the start of our communication! I tried to tell you the truth many times
in my life, but I was too afraid to do that, as I have promised not to lie to you for anything..

Now I’m dying, I afraid of nothing so I tell you the truth: I don’t like the salty coffee, what a strange bad taste.. But I have had the salty coffee for my whole life! Since I knew you, I never feel sorry for anything I do for you. Having you with me is my biggest happiness for my whole life. If I can live for the second time, still want to know you and have you for my whole life,even though I have to drink the salty coffee again”.

Her tears made the letter totally wet.Someday, someone asked her: what’s the taste of salty coffee? Its sweet. She replied.

Love is not 2 forget but 2 forgive, not 2 c but 2 understand, not 2 hear but 2 listen, not 2 let go but 2 HOLD ON !!!!

Don’t ever leave the one you love for the one you like, because the one you like will leave you for the one they love.

Find a guy, who calls you beautiful instead of hot. Who calls you back when you hang up on him. Who will stay awake just to watch you sleep. Wait for the guy who kisses your forehead. Who wants to show you off to the world when you are in your sweats. Who holds your hand in front of his friends..
Wait for the one who is constantly reminding you of how much he cares about you and how lucky he is to have you.


Wait for the one who turns to his friends and says, “…that’s her

roses for the one u love………

December 8th, 2008

 

Today it has been 11 months without ……….Mukesh…………i was crying since morning & asking myself why time never stops for sumone…………I have learned no matter how big  or deep ur grief is …the world never stops for ur pain………………suddenly in the evening i came across this story………….i know my posts are very long & little boring…………..still i want all of u to spare some time to read this…………….

 

 

 

 

ROSES


Red roses were her favorites, her name was also Rose.

And every year her husband sent them, tied with pretty bows.
The year he died, the roses were delivered to her door.
The card said, “Be my Valentine”, like all the years before.


Each year he sent her roses, and the note would always say,
“I love you even more this year, than last year on this day.
My love for you will always grow, with every passing year.”
She knew this was the last time that the roses would appear.
She thought, he ordered roses in advance before this day.
Her loving husband did not know, that he would pass away.
He always liked to do things early, way before the time.
Then, if he got too busy, everything would work out fine.
She trimmed the stems, and placed them in a very special vase.
Then, sat the vase beside the portrait of his smiling face.
She would sit for hours, in her husband’s favorite chair.
While staring at his picture, and the roses sitting there.
A year went by, and it was hard to live without her mate.
With loneliness and solitude, that had become her fate.
Then, the very hour, as on Valentines before,
The doorbell rang, and there were roses, sitting by her door.
She brought the roses in, and then just looked at them in shock.
Then, went to get the telephone, to call the florist shop.
The owner answered, and she asked him, if he would explain,
Why would someone do this to her, causing her such pain?
“I know your husband passed away, more than a year ago,”
The owner said, “I knew you’d call, and you would want to know.
The flowers you received today, were paid for in advance.
Your husband always planned ahead, he left nothing to chance.
There is a standing order, that I have on file down here,
And he has paid, well in advance, you’ll get them every year.
There also is another thing, that I think you should know,
He wrote a special little card…he did this years ago.
Then, should ever I find out that he’s no longer here,
That’s the card…that should be sent, to you the following year.”
She thanked him and hung up the phone, her tears now flowing hard.
Her fingers shaking, as she slowly reached to get the card.
Inside the card, she saw that he had written her a note.
Then, as she stared in total silence, this is what he wrote…
“Hello my love, I know it’s been a year since I’ve been gone,
I hope it hasn’t been too hard for you to overcome.
I know it must be lonely, and the pain is very real.
For if it was the other way, I know how I would feel.
The love we shared made everything so beautiful in life.
I loved you more than words can say, you were the perfect wife.
You were my friend and lover, you fulfilled my every need.
I know it’s only been a year, but please try not to grieve.
I want you to be happy, even when you shed your tears.
That is why the roses will be sent to you for years.
When you get these roses, think of all the happiness,
That we had together, and how both of us were blessed.
I have always loved you and I know I always will.
But, my love, you must go on, you have some living still.
Please…try to find happiness, while living out your days.
I know it is not easy, but I hope you find some ways.
The roses will come every year, and they will only stop,
When your door’s not answered, when the florist stops to knock.
He will come five times that day, in case you have gone out.
But after his last visit, he will know without a doubt,
To take the roses to the place, where I’ve instructed him,
And place the roses where we are, together once again.
Sometimes in life, you find a special friend;
Someone who changes your life just by being part of it.
Someone who makes you laugh until you can’t stop;
Someone who makes you believe that there really is good in the world.
Someone who convinces you that there really is an unlocked door just
waiting for you to open it. This is Forever Friendship.

Understand love before U lose sumone……….

December 1st, 2008

EXPRESS YOUR LOVE IN TIME…………..

Apparently, they are there to file a divorce.Lawyer was very puzzled,
after having a chat with them, he got their story….



This couple had been quarreling all their 40 over yrs of marriage nothing

ever seems to go right.They hang on because of their children, afraid that
it might affect their up-bringing. Now, all their children have already grown up,
have their own family, there’s nothing else the old couple have to worry about,
all they wanted is to lead their own life free from all these years of unhappiness
from their marriage, so both agree on a divorce….



Lawyer was having a hard time trying to get the papers done,

because he felt that after 40 yrs of marriage at the age of 70,
he couldn’t understand why the old couple would still want a divorce..




While they were signing the papers, the wife told the husband..




“I really love u, but I really cant carry on anymore, I’m sorry..”




“Its o.k, I understand..” said the husband. Lookin at this, the lawyer

suggested a dinner together, just 3 of them,wife thought,
why not, since they are still gonna be friends..




At the dining table, there was a silence of awkardness.




The first dish was roasted chicken, immediately, the old man took the drumstick

for the old lady..”take this, its your favourite..”




Looking at this, the lawyer thought maybe theres still a chance, but the wife

was frowning when she answer..”This is always the problem, you always think
so highly of yourself, never thought about how I feel,
don’t you know that I hate drumsticks?”




Little did she know that, over the years, the husband have been trying

all ways to please her, little did she know that drumsticks was the husband’s
favourite. Little did he know that she never thought he understand her at all,
little did he know that she hates drummsticks even though all he wants is the best for her.




That night, both of them couldn’t sleep, toss and turn, toss and turn…after hours,

the old man couldn’t take it anymore, he knows that he still loves her,
and he cant carry on life without her, he wants her back, he wants to tell her,
he is sorry, he wanted to tell her “I love you”…




He picks up the phone, starting dialing her number….ringing never stops..he never stop dialing….

On the other side, she was sad, she couldn’t understand how come after all these years,
he still doesn’t understand her at all, she loves him a lot, but she just cant take it anymore….
phone’s ringing, she refuses to answer knowing that its him…
“whats the point of talking now that its over…I have ask for it and now
I wanna keep it this way, if not I will lose face..”she thought…still ringing…
she have decided to pull out the cord… Little did she remember,
he have heart problems…




The next day, she received news that he had passed away…

she rushed down to his apartment, saw his body, lying on the couch still holding on to the phone…
he had a heart attack when he was still trying to get through her phone line….




As sad as she could be…she will have to clear his belongings.. .when she was looking

thru the drawers, she saw this insurance policy, dated from the day they got married,
with the beneficiary being her… And together in those file, there was this note…







“To my dearest wife, by the time you’re reading this, I’m sure I’m no longer around,

I bought this policy for you, though the amount is only $100k, I hope it will be able
to help me continue my promise that I have made when we got married, I might not
be around anymore, I want this amount of money to continue taking care of you,
just like the way I will if I could have live longer. I want you to know Iwill always be around,
by your side… I love you”




Tears flowed like river……




“When you love someone, let them know… You never know what will happen the next minute….

Learn to build a life together.. Learn to love each other. For who they are.. Not what they are…”

Relationships

December 1st, 2008

 

 

 

Hi Friends,
Do read this …..though a bit long but very touching…..Trust Me U would thank me for sending this….Its a Story of a Person teaching Importance of Relationships.

When I got home that night as my wife served dinner, I held her hand and said, I’ve got something to tell you. She sat down and ate quietly. Again I observed the hurt in her eyes.
Suddenly I didn’t know how to open my mouth. But I had to let her know
what I was thinking. “I want a divorce”. I raised the topic calmly. She
didn’t seem to be annoyed by my words, instead she asked me softly, why?
I avoided her question. This made her angry. She threw away the
chopsticks and shouted at me, you are not a man!

That night, we didn’t talk to each other. She was weeping. I knew she
wanted to find out what had happened to our marriage. But I could hardly
give her a satisfactory answer; I had lost my heart to a lovely girl
called Dew. I didn’t love her anymore. I just pitied her!

With a deep sense of guilt, I drafted a divorce agreement which stated
that she could own our house, 30% shares of my company and the car. She
glanced at it and then tore it into pieces. The woman who had spent ten
years of her life with me had become a stranger. I felt sorry for her
wasted time, resources and energy but I could not take back what I had
said for I
loved Dew so dearly.

Finally she cried loudly in front of me, which was what I had expected to
see. To me her cry was actually a kind of release. The idea of divorce
which had obsessed me for several weeks seemed to be firmer and clearer
now.

The next day, I came back home very late and found her writing something
at the table. I didn’t have supper but went straight to sleep and fell
asleep very fast because I was tired after an eventful day with Dew. When
I woke up, she was still there at the table writing. I just did not care
so I turned over and was asleep again.

In the morning she presented her divorce conditions: she didn’t want
anything from me, but needed a month’s notice before the divorce.. She
requested that in that one month we both struggle to live as normal a
life as possible. Her reasons were simple: our son had his exams in a
month's time and she didn’t want to disrupt him with our broken marriage.

This was agreeable to me. But she had something more, she asked me to
recall how I had carried her into out bridal room on our wedding day. She
requested that everyday for the month’s duration I carry her out of our
bedroom to the front door ever morning. I thought she was going crazy.

Just to make our last days together bearable I accepted her odd request.

I told Dew about my wife s divorce conditions. She laughed loudly and
thought it was absurd. No matter what tricks she applies, she has to face
the divorce, she said scornfully. My wife and I hadn’t had any body
contact since my divorce intention was explicitly expressed. So when I
carried her out on the first day, we both appeared clumsy.. Our son
clapped behind us, daddy is holding mummy in his arms. His words brought
me a sense of pain. From the bedroom to the sitting room, then to the
door, I walked over ten meters with her in my arms. She closed her eyes
and said softly; don’t tell our son about the divorce. I nodded, feeling
somewhat upset.

I put her down outside the door. She went to wait for the bus to work. I
drove alone to the office..

On the second day, both of us acted much more easily. She leaned on my
chest.. I could smell the fragrance of her blouse. I realized that I
hadn’t looked at this woman carefully for a long time. I realized she was
not young any more. There were fine wrinkles on her face, her hair was
graying! Our marriage had taken its toll on her. For a minute I wondered
what I had done to her.

On the fourth day, when I lifted her up, I felt a sense of intimacy
returning. This was the woman who had given ten years of her life to me.
On the fifth and sixth day, I realized that our sense of intimacy was
growing again. I didn’t tell Dew about this. It became easier to carry
her as the month slipped by. Perhaps the everyday workout made me
stronger.

She was choosing what to wear one morning.. She tried on quite a few
dresses but could not find a suitable one. Then she sighed, all my
dresses have grown bigger. I suddenly realized that she had grown so
thin, that was the reason why I could carry her more easily. Suddenly it
hit me; she had buried so much pain and bitterness in her heart.

Subconsciously I reached out and touched her head. Our son came in at the
moment and said, Dad, it’s time to carry mum out. To him, seeing his
father carrying his mother out had become an essential part of his life.
My wife gestured to our son to come closer and hugged him tightly. I
turned my face away because I was afraid I might change my mind at this
last minute. I then held her in my arms, walking from the bedroom,
through the sitting room, to the hallway. Her hand surrounded my neck
softly and naturally. I held her body tightly; it was just like our
wedding day.

But her much lighter weight made me sad. On the last day, when I held her
in my arms I could hardly move a step. Our son had gone to school. I held
her tightly and said, I hadn’t noticed that our life lacked intimacy. I
drove to office… jumped out of the car swiftly without locking the
door. I was afraid any delay would make me change my mind… I walked
upstairs. Dew opened the door and I said to her, Sorry, Dew, I do not
want the divorce anymore.

She looked at me, astonished. Then touched my forehead. Do you have a
fever? She said. I moved her hand off my head. Sorry, Dew, I said, I
won’t divorce. My marriage life was boring probably because she and I
didn’t value the details of our lives, not because we didn’t love each
other any more. Now I realize that since I carried her into my home on
our wedding day I am supposed to hold her until
death
does us apart.

Dew seemed to suddenly wake up. She gave me a loud slap and then slammed
the door and burst into tears. I walked downstairs and drove away. At the
floral shop on the way, I ordered a bouquet of flowers for my wife. The
salesgirl asked me what to write on the card. I smiled and wrote:
“I’ll carry you out every morning until
death
do us apart”

The small details of our lives are what really matter in a relationship.
It is not the mansion, the car, the property, the bank balance that
matters. These create an environment conducive for happiness but cannot
give happiness in themselves. So find time to be your spouse’s friend and
do those little things for each other that build intimacy. Do have a real
happy marriage!

If you don’t share this, nothing will happen to you, but if you do, you
just might save a marriage.

Relationships are made not to exploit, not to be broken.

We teach some by what we say

We teach some more by what we do

But we teach most by what we are

LOVE HAS NO DIMENSIONS

November 11th, 2008

 

 


 

PRICELESS WORDS




 

A husband wakes up at home with a huge hangover.


 

He forces himself to open his eyes, and the first thing he sees


 

is a couple of aspirins and a glass of water on the side table.


 

He sits down and sees his clothing in front of him, all clean and


 

pressed. He looks around the room and sees that


 

it is in perfect order, spotless, clean. So is the rest of the house.


 

He takes the aspirins and notices a note on the table.


 

“Honey, breakfast is on the table, I left early to go grocery shopping.


 

Love You!”



 

Totally shocked with the note , he goes to the kitchen and


 

sure enough there is a hot breakfast and the morning newspaper.


 

His son is also at the table, eating. He asks, “Son, what happened last night?”


 

His son says, “Well, you came home around 3 AM, drunk and delirious.


 

Broke some crockery, puked in the hall, and gave yourself a black eye


 

when you stumbled into the door”. Confused, the man asks,


 

“So, why is everything in order and so clean, and


 

breakfast is on the table waiting for me?


 

I should expect a big quarrel with her!”



 

His son replies, “Oh, that! Mom dragged you to the bedroom,


 

and when she tried to take your clothes n shoes off,


 

you said,



 

“LADY LEAVE ME ALONE! I’M MARRIED!”




 

Moral


 

Self-induced hangover - $ 400.00


 

Broken crockery - $ 800.00


 

Breakfast - $ 10.00


 

Saying the Right Thing While Drunk '" “PRICELESS “




 

There are truly some things that both money and Mastercard can’t buy



 

12 ways to know u luv sumone

November 10th, 2008

12 Ways To Know That You Love Someone
===================================



TWELVE:
You talk with him/her late at night and when you go to bed you still think of him/her.

ELEVEN:
You walk really slowly when you are with him/her.

TEN:
You don’t feel Ok when he/she is far away.

NINE:
You smile when you hear his/her voice.

EIGHT:
When you look at him/her,you do not see other people around you.You see only him/her.

SIX:
He/She is everything you want to think.

FIVE:
You realise that you smile every time you look at him/her.

FOUR:
You would do anything to see him/her.

THREE:
While you have been reading this, there was a person in your mind all the time.

TWO:
You’ve been so busy thinking of that person that you didn’t notice that number SEVEN is missing.

ONE:
You are going to check above if that’s true and now you are silently laughing to yourself.

WITHOUT YOU

March 23rd, 2008

without u my life is like a blank page

which has no meaning.

without u my life is like a car

without brakes.

without u my life is like a flower

which was plucked by someone recently.

without u my life is like a ship

which was lost in a sea.

without u my life is like a desert

waiting endlessly for a single drop of rain.

without u i m INCOMPLETE.

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