Just a bad day. i m a wife. Married last year. Just like others me and my husband also go with some small issues. V just hav small talks which ends with a cold cease fire like moments. sometimes these moments r lenthy ones.
This time my husband feels he is jst loosing his individuality with me. He chnge himself in terms of his bad habits. I dont feel its bad for him rather i feel good about the changes and i appreciate his efforts. He jst quit somking and I m vry happy. But now he jst feeling so chngd that he feels like loosing his identity. I never want to lead him . but its natural with a new relation u hav to change urself to make a room for the new member in ur life.
He complains that all his meets and friends saw him as a fully changed personality. But he never thought how much I hav to chage myself and my lifestyle. I love him vry much and cant take this silence anymore. there is no one who can tell him about the changes in my life. I m not complianing. I m happy with all the changes he brougt in my life.
“Just want to see him happy. Because I love him so much.”
neha ji lage rahie ek na ek din bechara sudhar jaega.
thanks all of u. i never thought u all r interested in my problem. ur concern is vry heart touching.
have a nice day.
If you love anyone try to take share of all his feelings-good and bad and also share your liking and non liking with him without imposing anything.Try to be a friend not a guide,try to be a lover not a legal wife,try to be a companion not a burden. Keep faith on God.Everything must be o.k.
just have faith in GOD and all your problems will be resolved. Happiness should be realised within one’’s own self..its not available externally or money cannot buy happiness.
Difficulties in our life do not come to destroy us. But to help us realize our hidden potential. Let difficulties know that v r difficult.
When you love somebody, be ready to take the intensity of emotions. Be jealous, anxious. Love with all your might. Take the pain and everything that comes with it. Just make sure that the person is worth it.