Kya Kare patni zab
pati ho hinbhawana ka shikar!!!!!!!!
Kabhi izzat ,to
kabhi shorat,kabhi daulat aushi kaye wazahe hai zinme patni yadhi pati se
badakar ho to patni ko hinbhawana ka shikar bana deti hai.ause me patni kya
kare?
Tyag de ause
aparipakwa soch wale admiko ya fhir dharya aur saiyamse pati ke man se yeh
bhawana nikale????????????
dhairya se kam le………..samay sab badal deta hai.
dhairya aur samanjasya aisi tarkeeb hai jo samasyaon ko saanp bhi mar jaay aur laathi bhi na tute is tarj per hal karte hain….
pehle to aisa ehsaas hi na paida hone de,yadi fir bhi ho, to dhairya se sambhale
nice post vilas.
pati ko is bat ka ahsas na hone de ki woh kisi tarha se kam hai aj ki duniya me koi bhi kam chota ya bada nahi hota hai ye baat bar bar samjha kar use apni kamtari ka ahsas na hone dene me hi badppan hai
Leaving husband is no solution……..She should try to boost the moral of the husband……..Pati kaa bhee kartavya hey .heen bhaavana ko mann se nikaale tabhi zindagi kee gaadi aage chal paayegi…..
A thoughtful question. Well said. But what’’s your answer on this, friend?
excellent………wife should help her husband in overcoming that situation……
teach them a lesson
difficult question….. early part of married life will be hell…. only if the biwi is sensible everything can be handled properly else…life will be a balancing act..nice post
dil mein pyaar ho to heen bhawanayein ayenge kahan se?
NA JANE KYU LOG AISE SOCHTE HAI.STATUS DOESN”T MATTER IN LOVE AGAR DIL MEIN PYAR HO TOH AISI BHAVNA MANN MEIN LANI NAHI CHAHIYE
Inferiority complex… Aajkal ye problem bahot badh gaya hai. Aur iss problem ki wajah se kai ghar tut rahe hai. Kisi b insan me jab ye inferority complex aa jata hia to family support bahot jaruri ban jata hai par jabtak insan khud nahi chahega khud ka confidence nahi hoga tabtak koi kuch nahi kar sakta… jo karna hai khud ko hi karna hai.
zinme patni yadhi pati se
badakar ho to patni ko hinbhawana ka shikar bana deti
…… please check the word patni ko… it should be pati ko…. vaise bahut hi achcha question uthaya hai…nice post
Help & encourage him to go ahead and win the battle of life & say I am behind you.
Excellent Vilas.
Hi Vilas, you have raised a psycholigical problem that has lot to do with the society and the environment one lives in. I think, there is no solution if such a situation arises in the relationship of a wife and husband. The remedy is to avoid such a situation cropping up in life. If the marriage is based on mutual love and affection such a situation won”t arise. If the marriage is based on conveience and without love between the partners then this types of things do happen. However, I feel, the wife can do a lot to remove inferiority complex of the husband by her attitude and behaviour towards her husband.
nice topic & nice thoughts……………………
inferiorty complex tab aata hai jab patni pati ko importance nahi deti hai woh har samay use apne comprison me chota sabit karti hai. agar woh chaahe to aadmi ki hidden specillities ko high light karke aapni aur apne hubby ki society me respect badha sakti hai aur is problum ko root se finish kar sakti hai
Mere vichar se pati-patni ke beech sirf pyar ka sambandh hona chahiye, dono main koi bhi aage jaata hai to dusare ke liye ye gaurav ki baat hoti hai. Pati ki safalta main patni ka aur patni ki safalta main pati ka hi only mahatwa hota hai. Ek dusre ko aur pyar karna chahiye.
tyagna is not the solution,,so patience s the best option i think….
tk some dharya n disscuss d problem n give lotzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz of luv n care,affection n over all feel to secure.may be samjh jaye.
Very relevant topic for these times. Nobody can answer what should be done. However, I do not believe that such a pati can ever be made a normal pati. Even if he tries to get rid of heenbhavana, society shall not let him do. He can not be allowed to reverse the accepted social mores.
good one….Vilas….nice topic & nice thoughts……keep it up.
this is the toughest question………..which can only be answered by pati or patni….any way very very nice post
a tricky question…..only he or she can answer
Important subject taken………….
ek achchhe Psychotherapist ke paas le jana chahiye….good subject taken..
bahut achha vishay!!!! aaj ke samay me bimari ki tarah phaylta hua……………kabhi-kabhi samasya vikraal roop dharan kar leti hai ….aur algaav tak ki nubat aa jati hai.
sahi kaha……….only understanding and a strong will to be there for each other can be the only way out…
sahi kaha……….only understanding and a strong will to be there for each other can be the only way out…
Raut ji…bahut hi important topic liya hai aap jo aaj ki bahut bari samassya hai jiske liye koi ek zimmedar nahi hai kisi na kisi roop me pati patni dono hi iske zimmedar hai…rahi bat tyagne ki to tyagna samassiya ka hal nahi hota yeh cheez to aapas me baithkar ek dusre se baat karke suljhai ja sakti hai…yeh sir psychological problem hai…iske liye kisi manovaigyanik se sampark bhi kya ja sakta hai…all the best good night