“Dont sit there like a jerk and act like a victim. Go out there and make things happen”, I said to myself. I was in
the mood for some stock taking.A cup of hot home made coffee always helps the cause.
This was 10 months ago.
A lot of things were not falling into place and I had decided to make things happen. I was NOT going to sit around
and wait for “fate” or “luck” to smile on me.
I went ahead, made a plan and executed the same. The plan was meticulous, the timing, perfect and the intent was unwavering.
Ten months later, I see that the plan went through…. but was I enjoying myself??
I guess not.
It sometimes is better to balance pushing for things to happen with letting HIM decide what should happen as well.
I have read this post at just the right time. I am now at the phase where you were 10 months back and wondering whether it is time to DO something about my life. OR let life take its course.
some more introspection, great! we expect the results to be exactly the way we want them, and suffer disappointments which takes the joy out of the very process? correct me if i”m wrong.:)
So what are u letting happen now??..no blogs for so long??
let us knw when he finally decided to do things ”your way”
he generally seems to be on strike these days!
Good Job. Keep it up.
Great Blog Boss,Seems you have given words to things and emotions ppl go through at difficult,dead-slow time. So, its better to be lazy and leave everything for man upstairs??
is the donkey getting wiser?? :)……take life one day at a time mate! c ya……..
similar thing happened with me … yeah sometimes best to leave it upto HIM. But then HE also tells us action is better than inaction.
Interesting piece of introspection.
then y we force ourself to slog the things out…. try hard… nice post..
so very true… sometimes its best to leave things to HIM
hmmm so wots happenin nowadays?
yaa, its no point making things happen all the time..one should enjoy things happening to him/ her as well..
I agree yaar. I screwed up big time two months ago….
sach bola tumne.
Absolutely agree with you there. He knows best for us, so its better to leave somethings in his hands.
well i am in a similar position where u were…i too am trying to change…the path is tough but worth iti guess…To view the world differently,we have to be different.
Wise man on the move again… thanks.I”m feeling great now!
A great one…………..i was thinking on similar lines recently!! Some times pushing hard may be necessary and some times may be not!! If u had not tried that at that time, u might be thinking in exactly the opposite way today that u should have tried to make the things happen. Making u Push the things could be His decision only!! won”t u agreee????
hmmm…well, end of the day, its always HIM who decides to let our plans happen or fail. But then, we would atleast have the satisfaction of having tried to execute our plans, whether they succeed or not
Oh so true, so so so true.. so very true…
i have just told myself what u had told urself 10 months ago. and now i am scared about how i will feel, after reading ur post
may be its all destined but if v didnt try at all, i think v wud regret that much more. neverthless, u have put up interesting situation.
Hey dude join the gang of lazybonians…..do nothing…and things do happen on their own trust me…….btw when is the treat for all stick moolah????
hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm…….. maybe u r rite….
right….
well who is this HIM….and who is this I…..one stands for the God supreme and one that stands for you…….born as a human one may think that one does but i believe its all predecided that happens which is the FATE
shd i say “ditto Nischal !” but i wont coz besides not formulating anything concrete enuf for myself, i did not leave anything for HIM to decide either.. but tell u wat dude, I hope you know the difference between ”Enjoying” & ”Being Happy”….
hmmm…. i haven”t done anything for the last one year… but this post is certainly making me feel good for doing nothing…. q: